Being in a relationship with someone who’s unfaithful is the worst thing in the world. Unfortunately, your significant other may be cheating on you, but you’re not aware of this. There are a few tell-tell signs that can help you. In this article, we’ll be running through them, so read ahead.

The Sex Isn’t Good

You and your significant other probably had a great sex life. Unfortunately, the two of you haven’t been having sex and you have no idea why. This could be due to him cheating on you. He’s getting his needs met by someone else, so he doesn’t need you anymore and that’s the unfortunate truth.

And if the two of you do have sex, it’s probably not that great. He isn’t trying as being intimate with you isn’t his priority anymore.

His Phone Is His Life

He guards his phone with his life, if he’s having an affair. As you can imagine, this is how he communicates with his mistress, so he keeps it locked away as he doesn’t want you to know what he’s been up to.

If he was the type of person that would let you go through his phone and now, he doesn’t, you know something’s very wrong.  

Even if his phone isn’t guarded with his life, he may become very nervous when you touch or go near it. You should make note of this as this is a sign of him hiding something.

His Appearance Has Changed

The two of you have been together for a very long time. He never cared about his appearance, but all of a sudden, he’s going to the gym and dressing up like a whole different person.

He has a mistress, who’s probably younger so he’s looking his best for her. Not only is this a tell-tell sign, it’s an insult as he never took this much effort for you.

He Goes Away A Lot

The best way to know if your partner is cheating is by monitoring his schedule. If he’s away a lot, something is keeping him occupied. It’s not you, and is most probably not work. You could hire a private investigator to see what he’s been up to.

If not, you could do some snooping yourself, but you won’t get as much information as the private eye on the go.

Increased Aggression

If your loved one is cheating on you, he’s probably been treating you horribly. He’s angry that you’re in between him and his mistress, so he’s lashing out.

He may also be lashing out as he knows what he’s doing is wrong. Over all, he’s not the same person you fell in love with.

Increased Affection

Not only could he be very angry, but he could be very guilty. He may feel horrible for what he’s doing to you, and possibly your family. So, he treating you like you’re the queen of the world to make up for everything.  Either way, he’s not the man he used to be.

As you can see, there is a range of ways to identify if your loved one is cheating on you or not. In this article, we ran through them, so make use of the mentioned points.

 

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